Why You Need to Select a Guardian

The recent death of entertainer, Michael Jackson, brought the issue of guardianship for children to the forefront. Have you considered what would happen to your child if something happened to you? If you have a minor child, you need to select a guardian for your child. A legal guardian is an individual who is legally responsible for the care of your child. If both parents should die, the guardian receives physical and legal custody. If you have not chosen a guardian, the court will choose a guardian for your child. Chances are good that the court will not choose the same person you would have chosen. Choosing a guardian is one of the most difficult decisions to make in estate planning. This article gives you some guidelines and assists you in making that decision.


Begin By Making Lists

First, I want you to realize that no one can take your place. It will be impossible to find someone just like you. Next, you should make two lists. Make a list of every person that comes to mind as a potential guardian. Include both family and friends. Then, make a list of those qualities you would want in a guardian. Both parents may create separate lists and then make comparisons. Begin to narrow down the list by matching candidates with the qualities you desire.

Important Factors to Consider

You need to consider these important factors. Does this person or persons share your values and religious beliefs? Is the person or persons physically, emotionally and financially able to care for your child? Your parents may be your first choice but they may not be the best choice given their age and circumstances. Consider the possibility of relocation and the trauma that moving away from a familiar school and friends may have upon your child after losing one or both parents. Does the candidate have children and will your child get along with the children? After you have considered these points, narrow down the list to three or four individuals or couples. Then, ask their permission.

Get Permission

Contact potential candidates and ask if they would be willing to act as a guardian for your child. Decide upon a guardian or guardians and one or two alternates should that person(s) decline or becomes unable to act. List the names of the guardian and the alternate(s) in your Will.

Now Relax

These simple steps should guide you in selecting a suitable guardian for your child. Once you have made a decision, you should have peace of mind.